Zendaya and Tom Holland: Their Relationship Timeline

From co-stars to one of Hollywood's most private power couples, the couple's relationship timeline is full of quiet moments, public milestones, and a decade-long connection that led to a proposal.

Zendaya and Tom Holland's relationship developed quietly behind the scenes while much of the world speculated from afar. What started as a working partnership eventually grew into something far more personal. Here’s how their story unfolded, year by year.

Tom Holland and Zendaya seen on October 24, 2024, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

2016: Cast as Peter and MJ

Zendaya and Holland were both brought into the Marvel Cinematic Universe as leads for "Spider-Man: Homecoming." Production started in June, pairing them as Peter Parker and MJ — one of comics' most iconic couples. Off screen, their dynamic quickly drew attention.

Tom Holland and Zendaya at the Marvel Studios presentation during Comic-Con International 2016 at San Diego Convention Center on July 23 in California. | Source: Getty Images

2017: Press Tour Sparks Rumors

While promoting the first "Spider-Man" film, the two made several joint appearances, including a high-profile photo call. Dating rumors quickly followed, but both denied any romantic connection on social media, insisting they were simply close friends.

Zendaya and Tom Holland onstage during the 2017 MTV Movie and TV Awards on May 7 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

2019 – 2020: Other Relationships

By 2019, Zendaya was reportedly involved with her "Euphoria" co-star, Jacob Elordi. They were seen together in New York and later vacationed in Greece.

Around the same time, Holland began dating actress Nadia Parkes, and the two were said to have quarantined together during the early months of the pandemic. He also posted a photo of her to Instagram, further signaling the relationship.

Zendaya, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Tom Holland at a photocall for "Spider-Man: Far From Home" on June 17, 2019, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

July 2021: Caught on Camera

In 2021, paparazzi photos captured the moment fans had long speculated about. Zendaya and Holland were seen kissing in a car while stopped at a red light in Los Angeles. That same day, they were photographed leaving Zendaya's mother's home in Silver Lake.

Zendaya and Tom Holland at a photocall for "Spider-Man: No Way Home" on December 5, 2021, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

September 2021: A Subtle Confirmation

Holland posted a birthday tribute to Zendaya on Instagram that featured a candid photo of them on set. The caption, which referred to her as "My MJ," was seen as a quiet but meaningful acknowledgment of their relationship.

Winter 2021: Public and Stylish

During the promotional run for "Spider-Man: No Way Home," the couple turned heads on multiple red carpets. Though still private, their joint appearances highlighted a level of ease and comfort in sharing the spotlight.

Tom Holland and Zendaya at SiriusXM's Town Hall on December 10, 2021, in New York. | Source: Getty Image

2022: Family Dinner in New York

Zendaya celebrated her 26th birthday with a dinner at MAMO Italian Restaurant in SoHo. Joining her were Holland, her mother Claire Stoermer, and her "Euphoria" co-star Hunter Schafer — a guest list that reflected how closely their personal and professional lives had become intertwined.

Tom Holland and Zendaya seen departing their hotel on February 16, 2022, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

March 2023: PDA in London

In a rare display of affection, the two were spotted holding hands during a low-key grocery run in London. Photos showed Holland pushing the cart while Zendaya walked ahead, with several moments of quiet interaction captured along the way.

May 4, 2023: NBA Date Night

Later that spring, the couple were seen courtside at an NBA playoff game in San Francisco. They attended Game 2 between the Golden State Warriors and the Los Angeles Lakers, appearing relaxed and low profile.

January 2025: Engagement Confirmed

Zendaya at the 82nd Annual Golden Globe Awards on January 5, 2025, in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images

August 2025: Back on Set Together

The pair were photographed looking affectionate while filming "Spider-Man: Brand New Day" in London. Now engaged, they returned to the franchise that first brought them together — this time with a shared personal and professional history that spanned nearly a decade.

From on-screen partners to real-life fiancés, Zendaya and Holland have built a relationship marked by patience, privacy, and mutual respect. Over nearly ten years, they navigated fame, separate projects, and intense public attention — all while keeping their bond largely out of the spotlight.